Praise be to Allaah.
Visiting the sick is called ‘iyaadah in Arabic (from a root
word meaning return) because people come back time after time.
Ruling on visiting the sick
Some of the scholars are of the view that it is a confirmed
Sunnah (Sunnah mu’akkadah). Shaykh al-Islam (Ibn Taymiyah) favoured the view
that it is a communal obligation (fard kifaayah), as stated in
al-Ikhtiyaaraat (p. 85) and this is the correct view. It is proven in
al-Saheehaayn that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) said: “There are five duties that the Muslim owes to his brother
Muslim,” one of which is visiting the sick. According to another version:
“The rights of one Muslim over another are…” Al-Bukhaari said: Chapter on
the obligation of visiting the sick, and he narrated the words of the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “Feed the hungry,
visit the sick and free the captives.” End quote.
This hadeeth indicates that it is obligatory, and may be
understood as meaning that it is a communal obligation, like feeding the
hungry and freeing the captives. Al-Nawawi narrated that there is scholarly
consensus that it is not waajib (obligatory). Al-Haafiz said in al-Fath
(10/117): i.e., it is not obligatory for individuals.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in
al-Sharh al-Mumti’ (5/173):
The correct view is that it is a communal obligation, and the
Muslims are obliged to visit their sick. End quote.
The virtue of visiting the sick
There are many ahaadeeth which speak of its virtue, such as
the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him):
“When the Muslim visits his (sick) Muslim brother, he is harvesting the
fruits of Paradise until he returns.” Narrated by Muslim, 2568.
The reward attained by the one who visits the sick is likened
to the harvest reaped by one who gathers fruit.
According to al-Tirmidhi (2008), the Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever visits a sick
person or visits a brother in Islam, a caller cries out to him: ‘May you be
happy, may your walking be blessed, and may you occupy a dignified position
in Paradise’.” Classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
Imam Ahmad narrated that Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with
him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) said: “Whoever visits a sick person is plunging into mercy until
he sits down, and when he sits down he is submerged in it.” Classed as
saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 2504.
Al-Tirmidhi (969) narrated that ‘Ali (may Allaah be pleased
with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) say: “There is no Muslim who visits a (sick) Muslim
early in the morning but seventy thousand angels send blessings upon him
until evening comes, and if he visits him in the evening, seventy thousand
angels send blessings upon him until morning comes, and he will have a
garden in Paradise.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh
al-Tirmidhi.
Visiting the sick does not involve only those whom you know,
rather it is prescribed for those whom you know and those whom you do not
know. This was stated by al-Nawawi in Sharh Muslim.
Definition of the sick person whom it is obligatory to visit
It is the sick person whose sickness is preventing him from
seeing people. If he is sick but he is still going out and seeing people,
then it is not obligatory to visit him.
Al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 5/171
Visiting a non-mahram woman
There is no sin in a man visiting a non-mahram woman, or a
woman visiting a non-mahram man, so long as the following conditions are
met: proper covering, no risk of fitnah, and no being alone together.
Imam al-Bukhaari said: “Chapter on women visiting (sick) men.
Umm al-Darda’ visited one of the Ansaari men from the mosque.” Then he
narrated a hadeeth from ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her), who said
that she visited Abu Bakr and Bilaal (may Allaah be pleased with them both)
when they fell sick when they first came to Madeenah.
Muslim narrated from Anas that Abu Bakr said to ‘Umar (may
Allaah be pleased with them), after the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) died: “Let us go to Umm Ayman and visit her as the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to visit her,”
so they went to her.
Ibn al-Jawzi said: This is to be interpreted as referring to
one from whom there is no fear of fitnah, such as an old woman. End quote.
Visiting a kaafir
There is no sin in visiting a mushrik kaafir who is sick, if
that serves an interest. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) visited a Jewish boy and called him to Islam, and he became
Muslim. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1356). And the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) was present when his paternal uncle Abu
Taalib was dying, and he called him to Islam but he refused. Agreed upon.
The purpose in that case may be to call the person to Islam,
or to restrain his evil, or to soften his heart, and so on.
See Fath al-Baari, 10/125
Should the visit be repeated?
Some scholars are of the view that one should not visit every
day so that it will not become burdensome for the sick person. The correct
view is that it varies according to the situation. Some people may be dear
to the sick person and it may be hard for him if he does not see them every
day. In that case it is Sunnah to visit continuously, so long as they do not
know that the sick person dislikes it.
Haashiyat Ibn Qaasim, 3/12
One should not sit too long with the sick person
The visitor should not sit for too long with the sick person,
rather the visit should be short so that it does not cause any hardship to
him or his family. The sick person may pass through periods when he suffers
pain because of his sickness, or he may do something that he would not like
anyone to see, so sitting with him for too long will cause him
embarrassment.
However, it depends on the situation; the sick person may
like some people to sit with him for a long time.
Haashiyat Ibn Qaasim, 3/12;
al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 5/174
Time for visiting
There is nothing in the Sunnah that suggests that there is a
specific time for visiting the sick. Ibn al-Qayyim said: The Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not specify any particular
day or time for visiting the sick, rather he prescribed that for his ummah
by night and by day, at all times. End quote.
Zaad al-Ma’aad, 1/497
Some of the salaf used to visit the sick at the beginning of
the day or in the early evening, so that the angels would send blessings
upon them for the longest time, based on the hadeeth quoted above: “There is
no Muslim who visits a (sick) Muslim early in the morning but seventy
thousand angels send blessings upon him until evening comes, and if he
visits him in the evening, seventy thousand angels send blessings upon him
until morning comes, and he will have a garden in Paradise.”
But we should pay attention to the condition of the sick
person and what is easiest for him; the visitor should not choose the time
that suits him best, if that is going to cause hardship to the sick person
or his family. That can be worked out with the sick person himself or with
his family.
Frequent visits from people who do not take care to keep
their visits short or choose the right time may make the sick person’s
sickness even worse.
Making du’aa’ for the sick person
Du’aa’ should be made for the sick person in the manner
narrated in the Sunnah: “La ba’s, tuhoor in sha Allaah (No worry, it
is a purification, if Allah wills).” Narrated by al-Bukhaari.
Du’aa’ for healing should be said three times. The Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) visited Sa’d ibn Abi
Waqqaas and said: “O Allaah, heal Sa’d,” three times. Narrated by
al-Bukhaari (5659) and Muslim (1628).
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
used to place his right hand on the sick person and say: “Adhhib al-ba’s
Rabb an-naas, wa’shfi anta al-Shaafi, laa shifaa’a illa shifaa’uka shifaa’an
laa yughaadir saqaman (Take away the pain, O Lord of mankind, and grant
healing, for You are the Healer, and there is no healing but Your healing
that leaves no trace of sickness).” Narrated by Muslim, 2191.
It was narrated by Ahmad and Abu Dawood (3106) that the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever
visits a sick person who is not yet dying, and says seven times in his
presence: ‘As’alu Allaaha rabb al-‘arsh il-‘azeem an yashfiyaka (I ask
Allaah, Lord of the mighty Throne, to heal you), Allaah will heal him of
that sickness.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
The visitor should ask him how he is and how he is feeling,
etc. That is proven from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him), as narrated by al-Tirmidhi (983) and classed as hasan by
al-Albaani.
It is also narrated in Saheeh al-Bukhaari that
‘Aa’ishah did that when she visited Abu Bakr and Bilaal (may Allaah be
pleased with them both).
Reassuring him and giving him hope of a long life
A hadeeth concerning that was narrated by al-Tirmidhi (2087)
but it is a weak hadeeth: “When you enter upon a sick person and reassure
him that he is going to live, that does not change anything, but it lifts
his spirits.” It was classed as da’eef (weak) by al-Albaani in Da’eef
al-Tirmidhi.
But it is supported in meaning by the words of the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “La ba’s, tuhoor in sha
Allaah (No worry, it is a purification, if Allah wills).” So we should try
to cheer him up and give him glad tidings of healing in sha Allaah, for that
will comfort the sick person.
See al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 5/171-176.